The Power of Acknowledging Mistakes

We are not always right, nor do we always make the best decisions for ourselves. At times, we act out of hyperactivity, impulsivity, or even passive-aggressive anger when emotions overwhelm us.


Making mistakes is a natural part of life and not inherently a problem. However, repeating the same mistake over and over is where the real issue lies. Consider Miss BS, for example—a family-oriented individual who places unwavering trust in her family. Yet, despite her trust, she often ends up feeling isolated. Trusting one’s family isn’t the mistake here; the problem arises when she doesn’t learn from the repeated emotional harm. When we continue to repeat a mistake, it stops being an error and becomes a choice. It’s then that we find ourselves questioning, "Why do I always end up with these situations despite being a good person?"


Identifying our mistakes is not always easy. Often, we become so accustomed to our routines and behaviors that they feel inseparable from who we are. But it’s okay if you’ve been stuck in such patterns for a long time. What matters is recognizing these habits, acknowledging their impact, and being open to change. Growth begins with awareness, and by embracing transformation, you allow yourself to become the best version of you—a more resilient, thoughtful, and empowered individual.


Thank you for taking the time to reflect with me.





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