Humanity vs. Animal Instinct: A Psychological and Sociological Reflection

In the intricate web of relationships that define our existence, one truth stands glaringly obvious: the moment we let go of our humanity, we regress into something primal, something less than human. The fine line separating humans from animals is the capacity for empathy, compassion, and a shared sense of purpose. Yet, as much as we celebrate these virtues, a darker truth persists—humans often derive satisfaction from pulling others down. This paradox is not merely an emotional lament but a psychological and sociological reality.


The Psychology of Putting Others Down

Research in social psychology has shown that belittling others can provide a temporary boost to self-esteem. According to the Social Comparison Theory by Leon Festinger, humans have an innate drive to evaluate themselves, often in comparison with others. When a person perceives someone as more capable, attractive, or successful, it may trigger feelings of inadequacy. To cope with these feelings, individuals often resort to derogatory remarks or actions to "level the playing field."


This is not just a personal flaw; it’s a societal pattern. Studies reveal that workplaces rife with gossip and backbiting report lower employee satisfaction and productivity. The so-called "crab mentality," where individuals pull down others striving to succeed, is sadly common in competitive environments.


Sociological Insights: Why Do Humans Enjoy Dominating?

Historically, humans have evolved in hierarchical structures where dominance often equated to survival. While we have transcended much of our primal instincts, remnants of these survival mechanisms persist. Sociologist Pierre Bourdieu noted that power dynamics in society are often upheld through symbolic violence—subtle, non-physical means of asserting dominance, such as humiliation or exclusion. This creates a culture where putting others down is not just accepted but celebrated as a form of victory.


The irony is that these victories are hollow. True success lies in uplifting others, not in stepping on them. This is where examples from history provide us with profound lessons.


Lessons from Humanity's Finest Moments

In the annals of history, few have demonstrated humanity better than the Sikh warriors of Punjab. During the brutal battles they fought, Sikh soldiers carried water to the battlefield—not just for their comrades but also for their enemies. When asked why they did this, one Sikh fighter profoundly remarked, "My battle is with them, not with God. Offering water is God’s order; it is not part of my enmity." This act of compassion transcended the brutality of war, reminding us that humanity is the ultimate victor.


Similarly, during the Kisan Andolan (Farmers' Protest) in India, Sikh farmers exhibited unparalleled resilience and humanity. Even as they faced police brutality, they offered food to the very officers tasked with suppressing them. Their actions were not driven by hatred but by a deep understanding of what it means to be human.


Humanity as the Ultimate Victory

True winners are not those who dominate or belittle others but those who uplift and inspire. Humanity is about bridging gaps, healing wounds, and recognizing that every life holds intrinsic value. The Sikh philosophy of “Charhdi Kala”—a state of eternal optimism and high spirits—teaches us that even in adversity, we can choose to rise above pettiness and embody the best of what it means to be human.


A Call to Action

Let us redefine what it means to succeed. Let us challenge the cultural norms that equate putting others down with power. Let us build a world where friendships are built on defense, not betrayal; where teachers adapt to the needs of their students; and where bosses lead with support, not oppression.


The greatest triumph of humanity lies not in how much we take but in how much we give. Let us be warriors of compassion, champions of empathy, and architects of a better tomorrow. The choice to remain human, even in the face of adversity, is the greatest battle we will ever fight—and the most meaningful victory we will ever achieve.


Summary

Humanity distinguishes itself through compassion, empathy, and uplifting others, yet many people find satisfaction in putting others down to feel superior. Psychological theories like the Social Comparison Theory reveal that belittling others temporarily boosts self-esteem, while sociological studies highlight how power dynamics perpetuate this behavior. However, true success lies in kindness and support, as shown in history.


Sikh warriors exemplified humanity during battles by offering water to their enemies, prioritizing compassion over enmity. Similarly, during the Kisan Andolan in India, Sikh farmers showed resilience and humanity by feeding the police officers who had beaten them. These acts of kindness highlight that true victory lies in upholding humanity, not dominance.


Let us strive for a world built on empathy, support, and the recognition of every individual’s worth. True greatness is achieved not by tearing others down but by lifting them up.


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